Dr. Oja our oncologist has Mike on an aggressive treatment plan. He is receiving three drugs
(the nurse in me will tell you the names for those of you who might be interested). Bleomycin, Cysplatin and Etoposide are strong medications that target cells which divide quickly. Since Mike's cancer cells are the type that divide and grow quickly chemo is usually really effective at killing the cancer. However chemo also kills off healthy cells in his body that grow and divide quickly like cells in the mouth, stomach, hair and immune cells. That's where the side effects come from. So we have been prepared to expect hair loss, nausea, fatigue and a weak immune system. We are not looking forward to it but we are motivated by the high success of this treatment with non-seminoma cancer. We never would choose suffering for ourselves but we find hope in the fact that God uses suffering for good. A verse that I've been holding on to is in James 1:2 "Consider it pure joy my brothers whenever you face trials of many kinds because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be complete, not lacking anything." One of the fears I've struggled with is how our kids are going to handle seeing their strong energetic daddy go through sickness. This promise is the only thing that gives me comfort it assures me that Toby,Tyler and Keegan will be complete not lacking anything. So chemotherapy here we go....
Thanks so much for the medical details.....it will help us to focus our prayers specifically and it will stop me from asking questions constantly which I know can be overwhelming when you need to get your head away from the details occasionally.
ReplyDeleteMay God give you many moments of joy and laughter and intimacy as you walk this road together.
We know how well both of you can persevere .......( Jana).....writing papers and exams, having babies and being a super Mom or........(Mike) fixing cars, building things, renovating and being a super Dad and .......(Mike and Jana).......church planting, parenting and camping with 3 wonderful active boys!!!!!!
You are an amazing team !!!!!!
Love and hugs,
Mom
XOXO
Mike, Jana, Toby Tyler and Keegan:
ReplyDeleteWE ARE PRAYING. I'm so sorry you have to walk this road--it is hard and those special boys of yours will be wondering what on earth is going on. What surprises me though, is that at the end of all of this, Toby, Tyler and Keegan will be the most compassionate and caring boys and they will know they have two solid parents who stand strong together with their Lord even under the worst of circumstances.
We love you and are standing with you.
dana
God bless you both --- and your children -- as you go through this together. Bev and I will be praying for you
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